….I’m kind of – almost – embarrassed, but… someone just gave me such a touching and humbling review on Squirt:
“This was the best massage experience I’ve ever had. I can’t wait to come back!”
My style of bodywork is a two-way process. Clients remark that I am focussed and in tune with them throughout the session. This was part of my training (especially in shiatsu), but the fact is, I love what I do and am genuinely interested moment to moment.
When you touch someone, what intent do you have? Next time you touch a loved one, do it with clear intent. Feel the texture of their skin. Go slowly. No, twice as slowly as that! Is their skin hot? Cool? Moist? Dry?
Touch firmly, or trace your fingers lightly across an erotically-charged area of their body…. Get feedback. See what delights them. Annoys them! Approach the back firmly, use the weight of your body, don’t force. The belly area – lightly as a feather on this most vulnerable spot.
Stay interested in what you do – your work or your play will stand out if you act with intent and modify what you do according to what you learn.
It’s another way of staying young.